Does God require life-long celibacy of all those with same-sex attractions? No. Should I say more? Okay. I will. Much more. You hear it all the time, from self-named ex-gay ministries, from conservative Christian circles, from family and friends;  gays and lesbians committed to the Christian life are to refrain from all sexual activity. Be [...]

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I want to thank my compadre John “Torch Boy” Shore over at Suddenly Christian for giving me the heads-up on this article. I’m not Anglican or Episcopalian nor do I play one on TV, but nevertheless I had the good fortune several years ago to meet Bishop Gene Robinson. He was delightfully personable, gentle in [...]

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The realization I was a lesbian had barely cleared my cerebral cortex before I was promising to God I’d never do anything with another woman all the days of my life. Anything included, but was not limited to touching, kissing, snuggling, folding, spindling, and kadoodling. Even after reconciling my faith and sexuality I still had [...]

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