I grew up in a family with no religion or spirituality whatsoever. I often refer to them as devout atheists. As a very young child, I was allowed, not without hesitation on my parent’s part, to attend church and Vacation Bible School with my Seventh Day Adventist aunt and cousins. Throughout elementary and junior high [...]

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I am many things, two of which are Christian and lesbian. Here’s the story of how the two started out as a separate series of events but finally integrated.
My first memory is of God’s Spirit being a very powerful presence in my life. I was three years old when I asked my mother how to [...]

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I can still remember feeling attracted to grown women at a very young age. For those of you that have seen the animated filmA Bug’s Life, I felt as though I was the mosquito being drawn in by the light. Ouch!
I was born and raised in San Francisco. It is also where I was found [...]

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I didn’t attend church growing up. When I was 9, I accepted Jesus in the Good News Club that was held down the street from where my family lived. I attended GNC for 3 years after that. The teachers (”my spiritual parents”), had to discontinue the club due to health reasons. I call them my [...]

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I am a Christian Lesbian. I have had one partner my entire life and the Lord has richly blessed us in our marriage, which will reach the 12 year mark in June of 1999.
For 9 of the 12 years that we have been together, I struggled terribly in my attempt to reconcile my sexuality and [...]

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“God speaks to each of us as he makes us,
then walks with us silently out of the night.
These are the words we dimly hear:
You, sent out beyond your recall, go to the limits of your longing.
Embody me.”
–Rainer Marie Rilke, “Book of Hours”
Introduction
I consider my candidacy for the Boston University School of Theology to be a [...]

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Ever feel like a black sheep sitting in a pew on Sunday morning? I have and it doesn’t feel good. I always felt more guilty and down on myself after having attended church. My solution - I stopped going. I was fed up with the hypocrisy and of having those authoritarian fingers forever pointing at [...]

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Discovering I was a gay woman arrived rather early at the age of 15. I am now 37. I encountered my first relationship in high school which was both exciting and terrifying at once. Fear, confusion, love, than deep loneliness at having to keep the big secret. I actively pursued being true to my orientation [...]

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My darling daughter,
Yes, you are MY daughter, and you will always be my daughter. Your decision to find out who and what you are does not upset me, nor does it bring me any embarrassment or shame. I have always been proud of you, and this has not changed. The only thing I have ever [...]

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I would like to speak especially to those of you who suffer apparent pain and lack of reconciliation about being both lesbian and Christian.
I could sit here and use a scientific method of proofs and logic to dispel your fears of this being a “sin”, yet somehow I feel that such evidence is not what [...]

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