I apologize for not following up on yesterday’s post as I promised but my plans to spend the day hunkered down in front of my computer blogging didn’t go as planned. Instead I spent the day doing the most important thing I could ever do; being a helpmate and support to my beloved. Her mom’s [...]

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Sam recently added the following comment on my post, “Change or Be Celibate” and rather than taking a chance of it slipping under the radar on the back side of the blog I’m adding it as a new post so it doesn’t get missed for those who share similar concerns and questions as the ones [...]

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I was reminded of a favorite quotation by Frederick Buechner this weekend related to calling, the quote being “The place God calls you to is the place where your deepest gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.” I adore that quote and in a future post I’ll come back to it but not today. Instead, [...]

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Today marks the one year anniversary of when marriage equality came to California and a year later D and I and tens of thousands of other GLBTQ Californians and those who stand with us in justice are waking up every morning wondering if this will be the week when the decision of the California Supreme [...]

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For the past several weeks we’ve developed quite a little archive on the topic of Dating and Relationships: Dyke Dating: Reconciliation Before Relationship Dyke Dating: Reconciliation Before Relationship – One More Thing Dyke Dating: Coming Out Before Going In (to a relationship) Dyke Dating: Online Courtship Caveats Dyke Dating: God’s Girlfriend Guarantee Lesbian Relationships: Preparing [...]

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[My apologies for not having this post up yesterday as promised but it seems that Comcast went retro on us all day yesterday, taking our internet connection back to the days of 2400 baud dial-up. Gratefully all systems are "Go" this morning.] This could be the shortest blog post I’ve ever written since the bottom [...]

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Don’t ask me Girlfriend! Oh, I know you wouldn’t of course, but others have. On more than a few occasions women have provided me with the detailed story of their relationship with another woman and then asked in the closing paragraph, “So what do you think about our chances? Do you think she’s the one [...]

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Okay, now that I got that out of my system, let’s move on to the subject at hand, namely Where in the World Is My Future Wife And How In the World Do I Find Her? Darn if I know. I’m reasonably ill-equipped to offer much advice on how to go about finding love when [...]

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The Supreme Court of California will be hearing opening arguments later today (Thursday) that both support and oppose November’s passage of Prop 8 in which 51% of California voters voted to enter the phrase “marriage is between one man and one woman” into the California Constitution.  The Court has two decisions before them. They will [...]

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