I didn’t realize until late in the day yesterday that it was Gay Pride Sunday but it’s not like we would have gone to the parade in San Francisco had we even remembered since neither D or I are fond of parades of any kind or crowds of any kind or the chaos that ensues [...]

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I’ve become acutely aware of something on vacation. Wherever I go I always notice every gay person within 100 yards. D and I will be walking down a street talking about the most mundane things that married couples talk about but when another gay person or two walk by us our conversation ceases as we [...]

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If there was a pill that could make me straight …..Straight in body …..Straight in mind …..Straight in heart ……….I would not take it. If taking such a pill would restore all my lost friendships …..And regain my parents pride …..And give back my families respect …..…..I would not take it. If taking such a [...]

Posted in Christian Lesbian Identity, Human Sexuality, So Gay 86 Comments »

The images below are of the front and back of my business card (minus my phone number and address) that just arrived in the mail the other day, and here’s what I’m wondering….am I now an official card-carrying lesbian?

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On any ordinary day I find myself thinking gay. At home. In the car. At the gym or grocery store or the DMV. Okay. At the DMV I’m not thinking gay. I’m thinking how they could possibly go any slower in getting us through those miserable insufferable lines. But even there, something might trigger the [...]

Posted in Human Sexuality, So Gay 12 Comments »