Soundbytes of Wisdom
November 13, 2009
I’d rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not. – Kurt Cobain
Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” – Dr. Seuss
I live and breath for an audience of One. – Sarah Groves (from “This Journey Is My Own”)
I won’t pretend. I’m not hip, slick or even remotely cool and I offer as proof that even on threat of torture I couldn’t name one song written or performed by Kurt Cobain, and I only know he was the lead singer of Nirvana due singularly to my best source and yours for looking smarter than we really are, Wikipedia. The only thing I know sans Wikipedia is that he was a talented young man who died too young, too soon, and too tragically.
I know a whole lot more about Dr. Seuss, being a devoted fan of his pivotal literary works including “One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish”, “Green Eggs and Ham,” and his tour de force, “The Cat and the Hat” with the follow up, “The Cat in the Hat Comes Back,” which serves as a primo supremo exception to the rule that the original is always better than the sequel. Au contraire mon amie! “The Cat in the Hat Comes Back” held me spellbound from start to finish. That crazy crazy cat. I’m no book critic but I still have high standards in literature which include a super-neat storybook with good pictures and a catchy rhyme.
And Sara Groves, well, she’s one of my best friends. She just doesn’t know it. Not yet anyway. I’ve been listening to her music for a couple years now since she wooed me with lyrics that spoke to the dark night of the soul I was walking through at the time. She’s had me ever since. She and Kari Jobe that is. They share equal play time on my iPod.
So, it’s not like I need to say this but I’m rambling here, typing with abandon without saying much of anything for a couple reasons; the first being that I’m having a bit of a hard time getting back into the rhythm of blogging. My creative muscles have atrophied from lack of use so consider this post my first set of crunches after a long absence from the gym. It’s painful to watch but it’s got to happen if I’m ever going to get moving again.
The other reason is that Dr. Seuss, Kurt Cobain, and Sara Groves pretty much said it all and don’t need me to round it out. We spend so much of our lives living to please others that we end up losing ourselves and when the day comes that we finally find ourselves again, our true selves, we fear being who we really are will be met with rejection and scorn by others. And yes, that might be true but in the end, as the Sara Groves song goes, this journey is our own and and because it is we’re to live it the way that’s most true for us knowing that in the end there’s the opinion of only One that will count for anything…the One who created you to be fully, completely, radically, and simply who. you. are.
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November 14th, 2009 at 10:07 am
the concept of “The Journey is My own” and “I live and breathe for an audience of One” really caught my interest. I canna speak for everyone newly out as I am, but it seems, for _me_, That ’till I decided to be out, to live my life fulltime, to live my life someplace else than online, to live authentically, I had been living my life the way everyone thought I should. I had been living and breathing for an audience of everyone but the One. There is a so much peace and joy in living authentically, but it has had a price. In choosing to walk my own journey, My wife and children have decided they canna walk with me anymore. What they really resent is that I am not walking with them as they think I should.
November 14th, 2009 at 10:24 am
Oh My Goodness……..THANK YOU!! Even when you’re beginning to tone up the blogging brain muscles again, you say such profound truths.
You are a beautiful person from the inside out.
Blessings to you for all you do and all you share with us.
Bev
November 14th, 2009 at 12:12 pm
I am deeply moved. You have hit on something so deep in all of us, when we are finally our true selves, that we will be rejected and scorned. Even in our relationships with those we love, it is sooo hard to be our true self. And we just want to be loved for being all of us, complete and honest with our selves and those around us. Sometimes I fear, I don’t even know what my true self really looks like. Always pleasing someone else, or so it seems.
November 15th, 2009 at 6:28 pm
So true, Anita!
Have been thinking of you a lot and hoping you’re finding your way in this season. Grace and peace.
November 17th, 2009 at 7:26 pm
So true, and so very inspirational. These simple words make my heart yearn passionately for my King. Thank you.
December 13th, 2009 at 4:28 am
I hate to disagree with you but Dr. Suess best work EVAH is The Grinch. God told me so.