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		<title>By: joni</title>
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		<dc:creator>joni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 23:08:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you AC.  I always always always have to remember grace.  And when I forget to live through that filter.. I always always always need to be reminded quickly.  So thank you for replacing my filter as it had begun to fall out of place.  Let grace always be the filter through which my heart responds.  Ahh!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you AC.  I always always always have to remember grace.  And when I forget to live through that filter.. I always always always need to be reminded quickly.  So thank you for replacing my filter as it had begun to fall out of place.  Let grace always be the filter through which my heart responds.  Ahh!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: DL</title>
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		<dc:creator>DL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 06:17:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Anita. As you know I have been tormenting myself lately trying to figure out how to love these men who preach hate. I even began to think that God would be off without me if I am the example that others in my little world see. I have been so torn apart because of the hate I see spilling out of others and I think that I have let a little spill out of me as well. I am so ashamed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Anita. As you know I have been tormenting myself lately trying to figure out how to love these men who preach hate. I even began to think that God would be off without me if I am the example that others in my little world see. I have been so torn apart because of the hate I see spilling out of others and I think that I have let a little spill out of me as well. I am so ashamed.</p>
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		<title>By: Christian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 03:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very well said. Another one of your articles that I intend to share with my straight friends who just don&#039;t seem to get it. Which is pretty much most of them. 

I used to not get it either. When I came to Christ I embraced a conservative community that shored up the convictions that I brought with. It was spending time with Jesus that led me to understand that this type of Christianity was toxic and mean spirited, in spite of all the loving people I had befriended there. Thank God I only spent a few years with them.

Why has this issue become such a litmus test for reactionary Christians? With the current economic crisis why aren&#039;t they concerned about other OT injunctions like that against usery?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very well said. Another one of your articles that I intend to share with my straight friends who just don&#8217;t seem to get it. Which is pretty much most of them. </p>
<p>I used to not get it either. When I came to Christ I embraced a conservative community that shored up the convictions that I brought with. It was spending time with Jesus that led me to understand that this type of Christianity was toxic and mean spirited, in spite of all the loving people I had befriended there. Thank God I only spent a few years with them.</p>
<p>Why has this issue become such a litmus test for reactionary Christians? With the current economic crisis why aren&#8217;t they concerned about other OT injunctions like that against usery?</p>
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		<title>By: GW</title>
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		<dc:creator>GW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 23:56:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful post. Such a great reminder that we are all in need of love and grace from one another. I have often pondered myself how I would have voted just a couple of years ago as a lesbian woman trying her very best to be straight and faithful to how I believe my Christian faith called me to live. It is sobering to reflect on how my perspective has changed. And I think, if I can change, can&#039;t others? I was pretty convinced otherwise. Thank you for the gentle reminder and your candid humility.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful post. Such a great reminder that we are all in need of love and grace from one another. I have often pondered myself how I would have voted just a couple of years ago as a lesbian woman trying her very best to be straight and faithful to how I believe my Christian faith called me to live. It is sobering to reflect on how my perspective has changed. And I think, if I can change, can&#8217;t others? I was pretty convinced otherwise. Thank you for the gentle reminder and your candid humility.</p>
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		<title>By: anita</title>
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		<dc:creator>anita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 18:05:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rachel--&gt; I&#039;m finding that grace is more a miracle than I imagined. When I&#039;m willing to walk toward it (and sometimes I&#039;m not because I want to roll around for a bit in my emotions) it always, without fail, changes everything. It provides the comfort and hope for whatever any of us are facing today or will come our way tomorrow. 

Kelli--&gt; That kind of reminder that came from your friend can be jarring, can&#039;t it? It makes me &#039;fess up and really be honest about myself, my motives and commitments. Am I only committed because it doesn&#039;t all me personally? If so, what other places of injustice have touched on the lives of others that I never even noticed? I want to learn from this. 

Lindsey --&gt; Thanks for your comments. I hope they&#039;re true. Actually, I have no choice but to believe they are, that one person at a time, practicing grace and extending love, can build the bridge to someone on the other side. Thanks for being a bridge builder yourself! 

Steph--&gt;Oh, I&#039;ve learned that the hard way. I bet others here have too. It&#039;s just finding a balance between keeping informed while not getting sucked up into the chaos. If I hope to keep any sense of calm or hope it has to be in grace and so I need to spend intentional time there. 

Julie --&gt; People all grieve differently and for different lengths of time. We&#039;ve been through something incredibly huge (and that continues) and we&#039;re all going to move through it as we can, and of course, just when we think we have ourselves all together a new wave of grief or rage will move in. I continue to be angry Julie but at least for today I can hold that with compassion and returning back to grace over and over again is my only chance to feel the anger but not react from that place. I can&#039;t promise tomorrow that I won&#039;t want to smack someone upside the head but hopefully if that feeling comes, I&#039;ll be alone and out of everyone&#039;s reach when it happens. You aren&#039;t alone in what you&#039;re feeling Julie. Not by a long shot.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rachel&#8211;> I&#8217;m finding that grace is more a miracle than I imagined. When I&#8217;m willing to walk toward it (and sometimes I&#8217;m not because I want to roll around for a bit in my emotions) it always, without fail, changes everything. It provides the comfort and hope for whatever any of us are facing today or will come our way tomorrow. </p>
<p>Kelli&#8211;> That kind of reminder that came from your friend can be jarring, can&#8217;t it? It makes me &#8216;fess up and really be honest about myself, my motives and commitments. Am I only committed because it doesn&#8217;t all me personally? If so, what other places of injustice have touched on the lives of others that I never even noticed? I want to learn from this. </p>
<p>Lindsey &#8211;> Thanks for your comments. I hope they&#8217;re true. Actually, I have no choice but to believe they are, that one person at a time, practicing grace and extending love, can build the bridge to someone on the other side. Thanks for being a bridge builder yourself! </p>
<p>Steph&#8211;>Oh, I&#8217;ve learned that the hard way. I bet others here have too. It&#8217;s just finding a balance between keeping informed while not getting sucked up into the chaos. If I hope to keep any sense of calm or hope it has to be in grace and so I need to spend intentional time there. </p>
<p>Julie &#8211;> People all grieve differently and for different lengths of time. We&#8217;ve been through something incredibly huge (and that continues) and we&#8217;re all going to move through it as we can, and of course, just when we think we have ourselves all together a new wave of grief or rage will move in. I continue to be angry Julie but at least for today I can hold that with compassion and returning back to grace over and over again is my only chance to feel the anger but not react from that place. I can&#8217;t promise tomorrow that I won&#8217;t want to smack someone upside the head but hopefully if that feeling comes, I&#8217;ll be alone and out of everyone&#8217;s reach when it happens. You aren&#8217;t alone in what you&#8217;re feeling Julie. Not by a long shot.</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 15:13:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the great post being raised with religious views similar to yours I could really relate.  And I have also asked myself where I would be standing if I didn’t have these feelings.  In the past this has given me compassion for people who are on the other side.  But, presently the anger over the passage of Proposition 8 is far overshadowing my compassion.  We all do need to learn to rest and find peace with God.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the great post being raised with religious views similar to yours I could really relate.  And I have also asked myself where I would be standing if I didn’t have these feelings.  In the past this has given me compassion for people who are on the other side.  But, presently the anger over the passage of Proposition 8 is far overshadowing my compassion.  We all do need to learn to rest and find peace with God.</p>
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		<title>By: Stephanie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 14:56:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very nice post Anita. An encouraging reminder. I especially liked....

&quot;For every minute you spend in keeping up on the news related to Prop 8, spend an equal amount of time centering your heart on grace. Go to a spiritual practice that feeds your soul. Write or speak a prayer. Sing a hymn. Listen to music. Light a candle and as you sit quietly focus your thoughts on grace, grace, grace.&quot;

Very sound advice. 

Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very nice post Anita. An encouraging reminder. I especially liked&#8230;.</p>
<p>&#8220;For every minute you spend in keeping up on the news related to Prop 8, spend an equal amount of time centering your heart on grace. Go to a spiritual practice that feeds your soul. Write or speak a prayer. Sing a hymn. Listen to music. Light a candle and as you sit quietly focus your thoughts on grace, grace, grace.&#8221;</p>
<p>Very sound advice. </p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Lindsey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lindsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 13:48:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a beautiful post.  And the beauty of God&#039;s grace is that when people on the other side of the fence see your beauty and the extravagance of your mercy, they will be moved to show compassion.

I know it, because it happened to me.  Not because of you, specifically, but with gay people being bold enough to let I (who was then the enemy) witness their lives, their joy and heartbreak.

Faith can move MOUNTAINS.  It can change the face of our political landscape, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a beautiful post.  And the beauty of God&#8217;s grace is that when people on the other side of the fence see your beauty and the extravagance of your mercy, they will be moved to show compassion.</p>
<p>I know it, because it happened to me.  Not because of you, specifically, but with gay people being bold enough to let I (who was then the enemy) witness their lives, their joy and heartbreak.</p>
<p>Faith can move MOUNTAINS.  It can change the face of our political landscape, too.</p>
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		<title>By: wvhillcountry</title>
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		<dc:creator>wvhillcountry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 12:25:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is funny that you wrote this today.  I have been thinking along some of the same lines because of a statement a friend made.  I was complaining about prop8 and reiterating again how it was as much a civil rights issue when she knocked the wind out of me by saying, &quot; Oh come on, If you weren&#039;t gay, you wouldn&#039;t even know about prop 8 let alone care.&quot; 

I needed that reminder almost as much as I needed yours.  That it is God&#039;s grace that sustains us.  Thank you for this thought provoking post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is funny that you wrote this today.  I have been thinking along some of the same lines because of a statement a friend made.  I was complaining about prop8 and reiterating again how it was as much a civil rights issue when she knocked the wind out of me by saying, &#8221; Oh come on, If you weren&#8217;t gay, you wouldn&#8217;t even know about prop 8 let alone care.&#8221; </p>
<p>I needed that reminder almost as much as I needed yours.  That it is God&#8217;s grace that sustains us.  Thank you for this thought provoking post.</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 10:45:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a beautiful post.  I&#039;m praying that God will grant you even more grace on your journey, and give you the hope needed to carry on past troubled times.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a beautiful post.  I&#8217;m praying that God will grant you even more grace on your journey, and give you the hope needed to carry on past troubled times.</p>
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